I recently broke up with my boyfriend of three years (6 months ago)...The jist of our breakup was that he was a homebody, who really didn't have the excitement for life like I did. We were just on two different playing fields and both equally felt alone and bored. Our sex life suffered and at times I was pretty sure I had fallen out of love.
I made a brave move and moved out to a city alone that is expensive, but I love....I have a lot of new friends and I have a lot of fun. My life is fullfilling and exciting again and every weekend I can't wait for the next new adventure. Whethere it is going to a concert, trying a new restaurant, or playing trivia at the local dive bar....It is fun and makes me happy. I also started casually seeing someone who shares my luster for life and I have a great time with him.
But..it isn't easy...I certainly struggle with money more and when I am not being distracted by all of the new fun things in my life...I feel lonely and start to doubt my decision to leave my old comfortable life behind.
I don't know if this feeling is normal?
My ex is a wonderful man, he just didn't have the passion for fun, friends, traveling, etc like I did and I became very bored in the relationship.
Then again I just turned 27...am I supposed to wanting to be settling down?? I don't feel like I am ready, but is sad to see all my friends marrying off and having children while I lead a life in limbo.
Honestly, I am happy...I just fear I let go of a man who EVENTUALLY would offer all that I need. The again would he? And would my restless spirit ever be right for him either?
Any advice would be wonderful.
I made a brave move and moved out to a city alone that is expensive, but I love....I have a lot of new friends and I have a lot of fun. My life is fullfilling and exciting again and every weekend I can't wait for the next new adventure. Whethere it is going to a concert, trying a new restaurant, or playing trivia at the local dive bar....It is fun and makes me happy. I also started casually seeing someone who shares my luster for life and I have a great time with him.
But..it isn't easy...I certainly struggle with money more and when I am not being distracted by all of the new fun things in my life...I feel lonely and start to doubt my decision to leave my old comfortable life behind.
I don't know if this feeling is normal?
My ex is a wonderful man, he just didn't have the passion for fun, friends, traveling, etc like I did and I became very bored in the relationship.
Then again I just turned 27...am I supposed to wanting to be settling down?? I don't feel like I am ready, but is sad to see all my friends marrying off and having children while I lead a life in limbo.
Honestly, I am happy...I just fear I let go of a man who EVENTUALLY would offer all that I need. The again would he? And would my restless spirit ever be right for him either?
Any advice would be wonderful.