I'm 19 and still a virgin (for no particular reason other then It just hasn't felt right) I often think about the person I'm going to loose my virginity to and I've come pretty close with one ex boyfriend but I just couldn't get past his sexual past. I know most guys in their 20's, which is who I usually date, have a pretty long list but, I mean I don't know how to not feel insecure and stupid about being a virgin. The guy I almost had sex with had had sex with 7 girls and he was 21. After he told me that I was sort of disgusted by him. I wanted nothing to do with him and I found myself unattractive to him. Someone please reassure me that I will be able to get past his sexual past when the time is right and be able to feel secure and confident.