I don't have a penis so I just don't understand ...?

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Hey, guys. This is a weird question but I'm curious as to why my boyfriend has this, um, problem. My boyfriend and I have sex a LOT and we never use condoms because he's allergic to latex. I know there are other types of condoms but I'm on the pill and he doesn't go in me, plus I prefer no condoms as does he for obvious reasons. Anyway, I was finishing up my antibiotics and I know that lessens the strength of the pill SO he agreed to use a condom. We went for about half an hour and he wasn't even close to orgasm and they were non-latex condoms. We finished up (well, I was exhausted from "everything") and he was peeved off beyond because he didn't "go". We were thinking back to when we did use condoms and he never ejaculated once with one on. Is that weird? Anyway, he was mad for the rest of the night and took it out on me which was annoying but whatever. I just want to know two things:1) Why are guys grumpy after sex? (He's ALWAYS grumpy after sex even when it's like the hottest sex possible). 2) Why can't he ejaculate with a condom on? Both things are SO frustrating to me!
 
guys get grumpy after ejaculation, its natural. and about the condom part, i think his body might just not like foreign things, and thus would function abnormally when he puts on a condom.
 
I think it's a ploy...so he can bang you without a rubber on...as for the grumpy thing....I have no idea...I'm happy as fuck after I get some hot action.
 
I never had sex but whenever I finish masturbating I feel exhausted and irritable and depressed. It's the body's way of making you not do it again.
 
Condoms reduce sensation so it is possible that he can not ejaculate because of it. Grumpy after sex? thats the first I have heard of someone being grumpy after sex lol Why the hell would anyone be grumpy after sex lol
 
i think your generalizing your experience unwarrantedly... this is your issue dear... don't make it everyone's... own your frustration dear...
 
guys are grumpy after sex because the testosterone is still very high (testosterone is the male sex drive) and it can lead to aggressiveness
 
jesus tap-dancing christ i think i want to vomit after reading that, thank you for filling everybody in on your daily shagging diary.
 
hehe, chuck him sweetie.guys are meant to be happy after sex.i think he was just fishing for a reason to be able to pop his cork in you without a condom.
 
it's not possible for a guy not to be grumpy after sex, well not me anyways lol..put ur head in his lap to cheer him up a bit!!
 
1) I never knew we felt like that after sex. That's just...odd.2) The latex probably tightens his penis too much so he can't have room to release.Just my thoughts.
 
1) Guys are grumpy after orgasm because it is a big letdown... going from climax to zero in a few seconds is a bit unsettling. 2) He cant climax with a condom because condoms cut down on his penis's sensitivity, so try a thinner condom
 
sorry i can only give u my opinion as i 2 do not have a penis!, my boyfriend is always at his nicest after sex, like a different person, n will just lie with me just happy but is moody most of the time apart from this. lol. people r different, not all men r the same. mayB it hurts after he has had sex but doesnt want 2 tell u (e.g a problem down there) n the pain stresses him out, or mayB he is just tired after which causes him 2 b grumpy. Most men dont like condoms, i mean it is like a tight baloon that swallows ur dic*, not the best. n i dont get an orgasm wen my bf uses condom n he takes 4EVER 2 cum so my advice is tell him he aint gettin no sex unless he chills out n stops bein grumpy and stay on the pill and chuck the condoms good luck x
 
i guess to answer your first ( and i am not doctor) but there is a build up of testosterone and he has to release. If he has come close to, but not climaxing, then his nads will be very sore. An extremely painful sore which is called Blue Balls. Dont know why, except black and BLUE. Feels like he was hit there. Maybe finish him off when you have had yours hon in whatever manner you want. The condom lesses the feeling factor. It is like wearing a raincoat. You can feel the rain hit and the pressure, but the actual feelings of the rain hittin is lessened. The condom covers up the nerve endings that help result in the orgasm. that is the best i could do hon.
 
1- I don't know why he is grumpy - I am usually sleepy and want to snuggle up an go to sleep. Maybe he is sleepy and just wants to go to sleep. ????2- Some guys can't ejaculate with condoms. Something that helps is to put some lube inside the condom and this will increase his sensation. Usually it is dry inside the condom and this extra lube helps.
 
Condoms decrease the erotic feeling for guys. After a while frustration and embarrasment builds and some guys direct their anger toward their partners. Talk it out. Ask him what he enjoys and perhaps use role play fantasies, his and yours.
 
(sry im not really awnsering ur q but u could cheack out jackinworld.com it always has good info about how guys work down thereanyway i just wanted to say... i have no idea wat u guys r ******* talkin about cuze i know when i ejaculate i feel warm tired and calm =) ahhhhh nice
 
1. first of all the grumpiness is because hes frustrated. He got that hard and that turned on, and then he didn't get the release. Sometimes thats even painful. I cant "go" as u put it even without a condom even though me and my gf usually do it for a long time and she does "go". I dont complain about it and I keep myself from getting grumpy but she feels bad because i don't. I understand how your bf feels though its an incredibly frustrating feeling, sometimes painful. Its just biology. when a guy gets like that, especially during an extended period of time, like when your having sex, hes supposed to get off. otherwise babies wouldnt happen. So when we dont frustrating and sometimes painful results occur. All that tension builds up too, and then it doesn't get released. All that causes grumpiness. 2. Probably because the sensations are reduced by the condom. It feels different and sometimes better depending on the guy without a condom.
 
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