I don't ever want to date....would you consider me weird?

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Everytime I meet a guy, and I'm friendly with them they somehow assume I want to get romantically involved with them....But no, I don't want to, I'm just a friendly person and I'm not into guys the way I used to be, I used to like guys for their appearance but ever since I grew up, I haven't been attracted to anyone, I'm perfectly fine with it, I don't miss having a boyfriend, I'm happy with my girlfriends, I haven't had a relationship in 3 years or sex in 1 year. I could be single all my life. But people make me feel like I'm this big weirdo for liking to be single. My mom keeps pressuring me to start dating, but when I look at men, I don't say to myself hmmm this could be a potential boyfriend...I simply continue along my path...In other words I feel for men the same way I feel for women, I just want their friendship and nothing else....Is this really so wrong? I sincerely don't have the urge for romanticsm.
The hottes guy, or the most interesting guy could approach me and ....for the life of me ....I don't see them the way others would, I'm simply not attracted, it's like eating your favorite meal and loving it, then one day you lose your taste buds and you suddenly don't have a favorite meal because you can't taste a thing. By the way I'm 24 yrs old.
 
I don't think you're weird. I can understand that a girl would not be interested in anything romantic, but maybe in a few years or so when everyone you know starts getting married and have kids they won't time to hang out with you. That's probably why people may be pressuring you, but I say you can do whatever you want.
 
No, nothing is wrong with you. Perhaps you just need a little more broccoli in your diet. Helps with the romantic flow. Anyway, I am 29 and I am the same. I just don't seem to care.
 
No I would not consider you being weird you enjoy being single nothing wrong with that.
you are also young and want to discover who you are and stuff
 
I feel you....as for me dating is too much work and its seems like I am going on some type of interview. You are young you have plenty of time to meet that special someone. Its good to see a female enjoy being her. The need to identify herself through relationship is so corny and everyone is doing it. Do what works for you----uyou will know when you are ready to be in a relationship, dating is the politically correct word for we're f******* and you can do that without being in a relationship
 
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