I dont argue back. I was told this actually can upset other people. True or False?

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Rhodanthe

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I would think not adding to conflict and just keeping quiet and/or responding in such a way that prevents an ongoing discussion would be a good thing. Now I'm hearing some people would actually rather I stand my ground and possibly bite off their head in the process. Tbh its just not me. I grew up in a home w/ lots of drama and conflict. I went to a school that had lots of it as well. I dont want anymore of it even if it means leaving upset ppl to argue w/ themselves and to return when they cool off.

Am I wrong? I was told it makes me seem cold, weak, and uncaring? Like I dont care enough to discuss and argue..the fuck?
 
It's cool not to argue, but not all arguments have to be bad. You can learn things from debate if they are things worth fighting, like political or religious ideas.
 
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