I crave love, sex , although I'm not aloud to have until marriage?

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l don't know what to do , l desperatly want to fall in love , I desperatly want to share my life with the person who would love me n protect me , make sure that I'm safe , hug me when I'm sad , give me advice , I need a man in my life , I lie to everyone by telling them that I want to wait until I'm married, Ive never had a boyfriend ( not that I'm a freak , is just that I belief that I have to wait until the right man comes along , I'm IN A DILEMMA ) I can't watch a romantic comedy anymore cause they make me cry and realise that I'm lonely, I crave for love, I need to feel loved, I need to say "I love you" , and I need to hear it , does this have something to do with the hormones thing , or with the fact that my father left my mum and I right after I was born ?
please I couldn't say this to anyone even my best friend , help !
 
if your a teenager, then this is pretty much to do with you hormones because you're at a stage where you are developing into a woman, so everything is messed up at the moment.

it can b because your dad left your mum right after you were born, because you didn't try the love of father closely, that's why you're also looking for a caring, kind guy, that can also be a father to you and at the same time a lover. may be because you also lived without being emotionally cared about..you desire those emotional things. we all need love.

im in the exact same situations as you, except that i had a boyfriend ONCE and we went on a relationship after "being" in love for 5 years. i really loved him form the bottom of my heart but i also had alot of studyin to do as well as family work, he thought i was ignoring him and playing around with him and maybe cheating on him. but he never had any proof and went on complainin and things went wrong, he broke up and it caused a very strong depression, and heartbreak. trust me its not a nice thing to feel, so now although i could've went out with alot boys after him, i never did. because i thought he was the right person for me, but i guess i was wrong. i still have a lot of feelings for him, but im tryin to love myself a bit more. so next time i fall in love with the RIGHT person im waiting for now, it wont break my heart like it previously did, i wont be surprised and will carry on with my life as usual.
 
who says you can't have love until marriage? Don't follow someone else's rules, regulations or desires follow your own.
 
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