cellarghosts
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...things first...? Ok so the gist of the situation is that there's this girl I like a ton and I think I waited too long to make a move (because I'm super nervous and shy) and now she got the idea (or so I assume) that I'm not interested and thinks that I only like her as a friend. She's been acting distant and not talkative at all. I really want to get through to her and let her know I like her and do something special for her to go that extra mile, in part to make up for me taking so long. We just get along so perfectly together and while I know this is what everyone says about someone they like, this girl really is everything I've ever wanted. And I'm afraid I've messed things up.
Should I ask her out for a Valentine's Day dinner or something? I'd love to do something sweet and special for her like that. Nothing extravagant since it's a first date, but something special nonetheless. Also, she's been feeling pretty sick with a bad head cold the past week or so and the other night I made her a personalized "get well soon" card in photoshop incorporating some of her favorite things and left the jpg file in her message inbox on Tumblr. Her reaction was:
"OH MY GOSH. That made me so so so happy. Awww. Thank you <3"
So that's a pretty good reaction, right? Ha. Seems like I wouldn't get a reaction like that out of someone who didn't want anything to do with me, yeah?
Also, the other night she posted something online about homework she was having trouble with and I offered some advice and help so she was like "that was really helpful, thanks so much. you're awesome
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Not to mention she used to always call me "amazing" and "hilarious", also calling me "cute" and "one of her favorite people" before. And now that's all gone. Or so it seems. I dunno though. I just feel like she doesn't miss me or something, but who knows. After how close we were and how much she seemed to think of me, and with our constant texting/talking, you'd think she'd miss me right? Shrug. Maybe she's waiting to see what I do so she can figure out for sure how I feel about her. But I dunno. She just never texts or IMs me anymore and she used to talk to me all the time. She's ignored a lot of the texts I've sent recently too. Maybe I just need to call her...
I feel like if she wanted to talk to me at all she'd say something or send me a text/call me but maybe I don't know anything. (I kind of don't). I just wish I knew how she felt and if she missed me at all. I want to be with her more than anything. =/
Does it sound like she likes me? playing hard to get? Trying to figure out how I really feel? I dunno.
Should I ask her out for a Valentine's Day dinner or something? I'd love to do something sweet and special for her like that. Nothing extravagant since it's a first date, but something special nonetheless. Also, she's been feeling pretty sick with a bad head cold the past week or so and the other night I made her a personalized "get well soon" card in photoshop incorporating some of her favorite things and left the jpg file in her message inbox on Tumblr. Her reaction was:
"OH MY GOSH. That made me so so so happy. Awww. Thank you <3"
So that's a pretty good reaction, right? Ha. Seems like I wouldn't get a reaction like that out of someone who didn't want anything to do with me, yeah?
Also, the other night she posted something online about homework she was having trouble with and I offered some advice and help so she was like "that was really helpful, thanks so much. you're awesome
"Not to mention she used to always call me "amazing" and "hilarious", also calling me "cute" and "one of her favorite people" before. And now that's all gone. Or so it seems. I dunno though. I just feel like she doesn't miss me or something, but who knows. After how close we were and how much she seemed to think of me, and with our constant texting/talking, you'd think she'd miss me right? Shrug. Maybe she's waiting to see what I do so she can figure out for sure how I feel about her. But I dunno. She just never texts or IMs me anymore and she used to talk to me all the time. She's ignored a lot of the texts I've sent recently too. Maybe I just need to call her...
I feel like if she wanted to talk to me at all she'd say something or send me a text/call me but maybe I don't know anything. (I kind of don't). I just wish I knew how she felt and if she missed me at all. I want to be with her more than anything. =/
Does it sound like she likes me? playing hard to get? Trying to figure out how I really feel? I dunno.