He will not clean up his room( adult partner aged 56 years) despite it being my house, and he pays NOTHING towards it."Free" internet, hot water, eletricity, food etc) Minimal housework( sweep the floor) and a couple of meals a week he will cook.I work full time, he does nothing. No-one can touch or move anything of his no matter where he leaves it.... but.... I came home to find he had pulled every piece of fruit off the trees. There was nothing wrong with them and they were not even due to be ripe until end October. HE had decided. I blew up. He called me stupid. He knows nothing about gardening and never offers to help...fine, its my garden. Then, he says I am a hypocrite!!! Oh boy did I blow.....question folks............was I wrong????