It's about a little girl who wants to take care of herself, her mother let's her by splitting the house down the middle and letting her dress herself, feed herself, make a fort under the dining room table with her stuffed animals, etc. I remember one specific part where her mom makes chocolate cake but she can't have any because it's on the other side of the rope that's dividing the kitchen. The title has something to do with her name, please help if you can.