Orange flower
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Before our marriage he said nothing about his previous relationships...after my marriage i found a love letter in his journal and a love drawing. then he told me about this girl (this was 7 years ago) but the fact that he brought that love letter into my house makes me sick! aren't I enough for him? He threw it out (in toilet!) n said he only kept it because he had made a change in that girl's life n stuff
he was also flirting with these girls before our marriage..i didn't know anything about it but after I found out I started hating those girls (i rarely see them anyway)
I don't feel like he belongs to me at all! I found all his pictures with other girls n stuff in parties and try to forget them but i can't! I kept myself for marriage n tried to keep all my love and flirting for my husband, but when I see what my husband has done, it breaks my heart ... i know it sounds gay, but I cry at nights a lot because of this ( he doesn't know about this)
how can I let go of his past?
(we've been married for less than a year)
Do u guys think it's a good idea to talk to a marriage counselor or not?
Thanks.
he was also flirting with these girls before our marriage..i didn't know anything about it but after I found out I started hating those girls (i rarely see them anyway)
I don't feel like he belongs to me at all! I found all his pictures with other girls n stuff in parties and try to forget them but i can't! I kept myself for marriage n tried to keep all my love and flirting for my husband, but when I see what my husband has done, it breaks my heart ... i know it sounds gay, but I cry at nights a lot because of this ( he doesn't know about this)
how can I let go of his past?
(we've been married for less than a year)
Do u guys think it's a good idea to talk to a marriage counselor or not?
Thanks.