I asked the question about a week ago how to fight for my husband? Now I need more help?

[sissy80]

I asked the question about a week ago how to fight for my husband? Cause after a month of marriage I found out he was talking to an old flame who has been a problem for us before. I told him if he had any doubt that he wanted to be with me and my two kids (9&5) then he needed to leave. Now we are still married he has been gone for a week wont tell me where he's at so I wont show up and we havent even really talked. He says he dont want to be with her cause he knows it never will. But with me it will work he is just not in the mind frame to make it work. She lives 3 hours away and also has 2 kids, but I dont know if he has gone to see her or what is going on. I dont want to lose him but I feel I already have Im not sure how to pick up the pieces. I know I did nothing wrong I am a good girl he always had a warm meal even if he didnt get off till midnight, I am not ugly, I am loyal and a good mom. So I dont understand, but who else is gonna want in a small town a 30 year old with two kids. ANY ADVISE