I argue with my Dad about once a week. Is this normal? And please read what I

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MisIndeDais

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i dn read all of urs ..

bt only one thing i wan mention u is not to forget what had done for u that u could not have done it and solved the probs u dnt kno how to ..
ok .nw u grown up .. n might feels and think u r matured .. n brought up the really social relationship to him .. bt he also might think and feel that u still young , dn kno any and questioning and challenging his intelligence and u a threat to him ...
anyway, just get really patient and pay more understanding to him and get to really know him who he really is nw .. cox ppl change ..
 
wrote, its very important.? Me and my Dad used to be like best friends. This was up until the time when I turned around 17 & 1/2. He just acts so stupid sometimes by starting an argument with me. He claims that I start the arguments. But I claim that the problem is with him. Yesterday for example, after I asked for his advise about part of my English HW, and he gave it to me, I questioned him about his advise because his advise was a little weak and I needed something stronger. I then made suggestions on how his answer can be improved upon. He then said that I'm bothering him because its to late to keep talking about the subject I originally asked him about and if I don't stop he's going to slap me. He said all this because he wanted to go to sleep because he was tired. This happened at around 1:00 AM. The next day, I told him that I wanted an apology from him. He then said "FUC* YOU!!!" really loud. He told me that I should apologize to him. My opinion is that he over-reacted about the whole thing and he should apologize to me. I'm not saying that I didn't make any mistakes at all. I suppose that I could have stopped asking him questions due to the time. But I say that he is a lot more at fault than I was.This all happened yesterday. And I told him that I'm not going to talk to him ever again until he apologizes to me. The thing is that I don't ever want this to happen again and I want to end it all right now. We are still at a stand off right now. So what are your thoughts on this. Who do you think is at more fault and why? I will choose best answer.
 
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