sex with me.? I have been married for six months and am the only one asking for sex. My husband first said because he is 55, his desire is gone. We went to the doctor, they gave him wellbutrin 75 mg. He said it didn't help. He then said he can't keep it up. They gave him cialis. It helped but I stopped using it because he still didn't want to do anything. He then said the house wasn't clean enough. I hired a maid who thoroughly cleaned everything. He then said my weight was too heavy. I am the same weight I've always been. Then I accidentally stumbled upon him in the bathroom masturbating. I soon found out he does it numerous times a day. Anytime he sees I'm gone, when he thinks I'm sleep etc. He gets up out of the bed with me and goes into the bathroom to masturbate. I found out because one night he got into bed, I reached over to touch him and he was lubricated and hard. It has been one lie after the other as to why he "has no desire" he says. but he does, just for himself. What is this? His new dilemma is he's tired. I don't know what to do. Please give me some answers. Thank You.