loveislife
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to do? Plz help? Well I m a 24 years old woman in a relationship with a wonderful 30 yr old guy. I am doing my Ph.D and it takes about 14-15 hrs a day at school almost everyday. Sometimes even the weekends. Its the kind of research I am doing which demands my time. Looking at my crazy schedule, my boyfriend suggested that we move in together. He has a good job. He comes back at 6:00 p.m., cooks, cleans and waits for me. And I am totally exhausted and feel like hitting the bed directly with no energy to talk, cuddle...So forget about sex. He never complains and even offers me massages (of course hoping I ll get relaxed and might get ready for sex). Since some weeks, I feel he deserves someone who an give him time and the love he deserves. I cant see him suffer like this. He doesnt say it, but I know he wants more which I can offer right now. Should I break up with him and let him find someone who ll keep him happy or should I be selfish and hang on with him and see him always sacrificing in the relationship? Plz dont ask me to give up my studies, as I worked really hard sine years to get into a great school.