I am too embarrassed by oral sex and I don't know what to do?

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julietteg16

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Basically, I am 17, have lost my virginity and stuff, that's all fine, however, I am absolutely terrified of my boyfriend giving me oral sex, i'm fine doing it on him, I actually enjoy it, however I am so embarrassed to get it myself, I just feel it is so unattractive down there and what if it tastes really bad? I hate that area of my body and the idea of being so exposed just makes me cringe. It's difficult because i've recently got a new boyfriend who's quite experienced and wants to try all this stuff like 69 etc, and i'm just absolutely terrified to, I do WANT to, of course i do, i bet it feels amazing, but i'm so scared i'm abnormaly ugly down there and he'll run a mile. What do I do? Is there anything I CAN do that'll put my mind at rest?
 
relax and talk to your b/f

if not to comfortable with that try to relax on your own naked in a room and get comfortable with your body get to know it then once your happy ask your b/f to go slow and try to relax just think of what his lips are doing to you not anything else and if you think your b/f ,s stubble is too sore ask him to shave it off

but i would talk to him he will understand if he in experienced and trust him
 
Ok, first off you have to calm down. There's nothing to be embarrassed about. Look, you had sex before with him right? And he loves you. So as long as he loves you, you have nothing to worry about. Ok?
 
just do it its ur body if he dunt like it dats his problem but he is male i dont think he will care
 
I Was The Same Exact Way, Till Finally I Thought If I Can Give It To You Then I Can Recieve It Too... So I Just Relaxed and Enjoyed EVERY Bit Of It. 69 Too.... Once You Relax It Will Open Your Eyes To A WHOLE New Level Of Orgasmic.... Just Close Your Eyes and Focus On What U FEEL Not What U THINK
 
Trust me, if he loves you, he isn't going to be worried about what it looks like down there! Just relax and enjoy it!

If it makes you feel better, wash up before that way you'll be sure not to smell funny or taste weird. Ask him to use some whipped cream if you want to be sure he finds you tasty and if it would make you more comfortable.
 
just go for it i am sure there is nothing wrong with you and you are just paranoid, speaking as a man that loves going down on my woman it is 1st class and you would be missing so much by denying yourself.
 
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