westvirginia 91
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my boyfriend is such a good person. but he has been smoking pot since he was 18. he is 22 now. he smokes it everyday...multiple times a day. but he never smokes around me, and is never high around me...because i had set the rules about that and he understands and obeys them. i also told him dont ever have drugs in a car with me. and he's good about that also. sometimes he forgets, but then i tell him not to do that, and he feels bad.
i am so worried that if we get married someday (bc i do want to marry him, i love him so much) he will continue to smoke pot and it will affect our family. also it's illegal. which is my biggest concern! bc i am all about following the laws of society! i am so afraid that he'll get caught with pot and go to jail. he's such a good person he does not deserve that but honestly he is ADDICTED to pot. and YES you can be addicted to it. i have never asked him to stop but he mentioned one time to his buddy that he'll never stop doing it. i overheard this.
please how can i talk to him about this? i love him so much!
im also afraid for his mental health. there must be a reason deep down inside that he feels the need to smoke pot at work and before he goes to bed at night. what is he escaping?? :'(
btw he is a very high- functioning pothead! he does everything and is not lazy! he cant stay still for a minute.
"it's freakin weed"??? i know someone that went to jail for having weed on them. so dont talk about it like it's not a big deal!
i am so worried that if we get married someday (bc i do want to marry him, i love him so much) he will continue to smoke pot and it will affect our family. also it's illegal. which is my biggest concern! bc i am all about following the laws of society! i am so afraid that he'll get caught with pot and go to jail. he's such a good person he does not deserve that but honestly he is ADDICTED to pot. and YES you can be addicted to it. i have never asked him to stop but he mentioned one time to his buddy that he'll never stop doing it. i overheard this.
please how can i talk to him about this? i love him so much!
im also afraid for his mental health. there must be a reason deep down inside that he feels the need to smoke pot at work and before he goes to bed at night. what is he escaping?? :'(
btw he is a very high- functioning pothead! he does everything and is not lazy! he cant stay still for a minute.
"it's freakin weed"??? i know someone that went to jail for having weed on them. so dont talk about it like it's not a big deal!