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I am going to say what happened and then at the bottom i will have the questions that need answered. please and thank you.. (it is gonna be long, sorry)
yesterday i went to the OBGYN b/c i am on the birth control pill and i had to go for a pill check appt. my mom took me cuz i don't drive (i am 17 years old) and she went in the room with me (just in case i don't know an answer to one of the family health history questions.) well the 1st nurse that came is told me that the doc (which is a woman) was going to give me a breast exam and i told the nurse NO and i said that i was uncomfortable and the nurse said "to bad" and she left the room, i looked at my mom and she told me that they would not force me into letting them check me, so them when the doc came in she ask me a few questions then said about the breast exam. I told her NO and she tried talking me into it and i must have said no about 30 times (no joke) i was actually getting really upset and almost started crying b/c i was so freaked out and my mom was just sitting on the chair giggling and not sticking up for me. then the doc said "deal" and i said no again and then she had my mom leave the room n she told me 2 change into a gown thingy n then she left the room, i got changed into it out of fear, like i was afaird that the doc was gonna yell at me. when she came back into the room i still refused to let her do the exam, so she kind of blackmailed me by saying that if i didn't let her do the exam she wouldn't give me a prescription for my birth control pills, so she did the exam.
the whole way home i told my mom that i when me n the doc where fighting over the exam n when my mom was giggling, i felt alone and scared and that i almost cried and all she could say was "oh well, whats done is done get over it" when we got home I told my dad, he flipped shit on my mom. my older sister (21) even thinks that it is wrong that they forced me and how my mom acted. then just a few hours ago, i started crying about it cuz i am still freaked out n upset and i got grounded for a week over it. also my dad said that i was over-reacting n acting like a little child and that he didn't want to hear anymore about it. I am mainly freaked out/upset, cuz my mom didn't stand up for and tell the doc no and that they gave me the exam basicly without my permission.
so my questions are...
1)did the doc have a right to give/force me to have the exam even after i said NO a lot and the fact that i am only 17 years old?
2)How can i stop being freaked out and felling really upset about this?/ How am i suppose to get over this?
3)Do i sound like i was over-reacting and acting??
4)What should i do to stop being really pissed off / upset with my parents for the way they acted?
yesterday i went to the OBGYN b/c i am on the birth control pill and i had to go for a pill check appt. my mom took me cuz i don't drive (i am 17 years old) and she went in the room with me (just in case i don't know an answer to one of the family health history questions.) well the 1st nurse that came is told me that the doc (which is a woman) was going to give me a breast exam and i told the nurse NO and i said that i was uncomfortable and the nurse said "to bad" and she left the room, i looked at my mom and she told me that they would not force me into letting them check me, so them when the doc came in she ask me a few questions then said about the breast exam. I told her NO and she tried talking me into it and i must have said no about 30 times (no joke) i was actually getting really upset and almost started crying b/c i was so freaked out and my mom was just sitting on the chair giggling and not sticking up for me. then the doc said "deal" and i said no again and then she had my mom leave the room n she told me 2 change into a gown thingy n then she left the room, i got changed into it out of fear, like i was afaird that the doc was gonna yell at me. when she came back into the room i still refused to let her do the exam, so she kind of blackmailed me by saying that if i didn't let her do the exam she wouldn't give me a prescription for my birth control pills, so she did the exam.
the whole way home i told my mom that i when me n the doc where fighting over the exam n when my mom was giggling, i felt alone and scared and that i almost cried and all she could say was "oh well, whats done is done get over it" when we got home I told my dad, he flipped shit on my mom. my older sister (21) even thinks that it is wrong that they forced me and how my mom acted. then just a few hours ago, i started crying about it cuz i am still freaked out n upset and i got grounded for a week over it. also my dad said that i was over-reacting n acting like a little child and that he didn't want to hear anymore about it. I am mainly freaked out/upset, cuz my mom didn't stand up for and tell the doc no and that they gave me the exam basicly without my permission.
so my questions are...
1)did the doc have a right to give/force me to have the exam even after i said NO a lot and the fact that i am only 17 years old?
2)How can i stop being freaked out and felling really upset about this?/ How am i suppose to get over this?
3)Do i sound like i was over-reacting and acting??
4)What should i do to stop being really pissed off / upset with my parents for the way they acted?