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I split up with my ex husband a year ago and he moved out 6mths ago. I have been dating a new guy for the last 8mths and things are going really well. My ex sort of knows via gossip in the area that I have moved on and he has made comments via text and the phone to me. I haven't mentioned anything to him direct though. Although it was his turn to have the kids a few weekends ago, he let them down and said that he would have to work and therefore wanted to have them the weekend just gone. I had arranged for my parents to have the kids the weekend just gone as I didn't want my ex to ruin my weekend away with my new bloke. My ex knew that I had gone away but didn't know where or who with and he didn't ask me either thankfully. However I think that he has mentioned to my ex mother in law who is one of my closest friends about me going away with a guy last weekend because for the first time ever she hasn't contacted me now for 10 days. To be honest I am starting to wonder whether it has been me keeping up the friendship and doing most of the ringing because I was petrified that I would eventually loose her. I have backed off this time to see how long it takes for her to get back in contact with me but nothing. The longest she goes usually is about 4 or 5 days but not 10. What shall I do? I don't want to admit to her that I am seeing someone as I would find this very awkward. Am also really worried if she does ring that she will ask me about last weekend and ask me who I went away with. That will make things very awkward. What shall I do?