I am remarried to a WONDERFUL man. I have a great, very nice home. We have

  • Thread starter Thread starter momof6
  • Start date Start date
M

momof6

Guest
6 great kids!? My husband owns 2 of his own business and this allows me to be a at home mom/housewife which I also love!! He takes care of all the bills, I always have EVERYTHING I want and need as well as all the kids. I have a great family and a wonderful relationship with his family. I only have 1 female friend, but she is great! My question......Why am I always in a bad mood? I have horrible mood swings. One minute I am great the next I am pissed off bout something. My husband says that I am not happy, BUT I AM!!!! I thought......I think......... if so then why can't I ever have a "good" day? Why do little things bother me so bad? Why am I NEVER in a good mood? I would not be exaggerating to call myself a B*&$H most of the time. Whats going on with me!?!?!?!?
 
Sounds like you might be suffering from depression. Use some of that money and see a psychiatrist. Good luck.
 
I am a military wife and i do get to stay home with my kids and were happy so i should be great right but i can be the same way! I found my issue is i get lonely i only have one or two friends and it is hard as a military wife to make great friends. I found what i feel like i am lacking is a sense of myself i feel i am only defined as just a mom and a wife and in some respect a maid lol. I finally decided that i feel bad about myself and that i need more in my life so i am in the process of trying to go back to school and i am going to start volunteering so i can meet new people because i seem to look at the same 4 walls all the time and that is my problem.
 
I'd guess that your problem is that you see the world around you in an unrealistic and unbalanced way. The good things in your life can't just be good, they have to all be GREAT (I count 4 uses of that word in your question). And the bad things in your life can't just be minor annoyances, they have to turn you into a super mega-beyotch. You blow everything out of proportion, good and bad. My advice to you is to tone down. If you can't do it on your own, counseling could help you.
 
Well first of all you have no career nothing to look for to no changes being made to your life.
I was suggests finding something that you enjoy doing and do that.
 
Well first of all you have no career nothing to look for to no changes being made to your life.
I was suggests finding something that you enjoy doing and do that.
 
Go see your doctor. I'm not being sarcastic. I went through a phase like that once. It turned out I had a hormonal imbalance that was easily treated with medication. After a few months I was back to being able to truly enjoy my life and be the kind of wife and mom I wanted to be. I think that if I hadn't had a great physician who really listened to me I would have ended up either divorced or with a very unhappy husband. You owe it to yourself and your family to explore the options.
 
Go see your doctor. I'm not being sarcastic. I went through a phase like that once. It turned out I had a hormonal imbalance that was easily treated with medication. After a few months I was back to being able to truly enjoy my life and be the kind of wife and mom I wanted to be. I think that if I hadn't had a great physician who really listened to me I would have ended up either divorced or with a very unhappy husband. You owe it to yourself and your family to explore the options.
 
Back
Top