please read background info.? Girl a:
She is a single mother, and I am still not certain how big a responsibility I would be acquiring with her child were I to date her. Otherwise, she is the girl of my dreams, exactly the way I pictured her, very sweet, honest and the hottest piece of heaven at the hellhole I work at. I can't avoid to smile whenever I see her, and for some reason I feel like I want to protect her no matter what(from what, I don't know) and do all I can to make her happy. Also for some reason, she seems interested in me and wants to go beyond just flirting. We both think a lot alike and some coworkers have even told me she seems to be my other half. Some already refer to her as my girlfriend.
Girl b:
She is a childhood friend, but I am not certain whether she would take me or reject me. I've never made a pass on her because our families are linked all the way up to our grandparents. Moreover, she is still her daddy's little princess and I don't know how he will react if I so much as start flirting with her. I don't want our families to break up because of my hormones. Still, when I see her I feel so in love with her that my heart starts pounding and I feel butterflies inside. She's never given me any indications to like me in a romantic way. We both share several hobbies together, but live far away so I haven't seen her recently. I feel that now we are old enough to date, and I don't want to miss my chance with her before she starts dating someone else.
My question:
Should I go for girl a or girl b? Normally I would just say go for both and see what happens, but if it doesn't work with one and the other does, I don't want to think of her as my back up option. Both are beautiful, but I am more in love with girl b, however, besides all of the aforementioned, it would mean I would have to forsake girl a, because I don't want her to be my second place. Were I to go for girl a, I would probably be happy but I don't know if I could forget girl b. What should I do?
She is a single mother, and I am still not certain how big a responsibility I would be acquiring with her child were I to date her. Otherwise, she is the girl of my dreams, exactly the way I pictured her, very sweet, honest and the hottest piece of heaven at the hellhole I work at. I can't avoid to smile whenever I see her, and for some reason I feel like I want to protect her no matter what(from what, I don't know) and do all I can to make her happy. Also for some reason, she seems interested in me and wants to go beyond just flirting. We both think a lot alike and some coworkers have even told me she seems to be my other half. Some already refer to her as my girlfriend.
Girl b:
She is a childhood friend, but I am not certain whether she would take me or reject me. I've never made a pass on her because our families are linked all the way up to our grandparents. Moreover, she is still her daddy's little princess and I don't know how he will react if I so much as start flirting with her. I don't want our families to break up because of my hormones. Still, when I see her I feel so in love with her that my heart starts pounding and I feel butterflies inside. She's never given me any indications to like me in a romantic way. We both share several hobbies together, but live far away so I haven't seen her recently. I feel that now we are old enough to date, and I don't want to miss my chance with her before she starts dating someone else.
My question:
Should I go for girl a or girl b? Normally I would just say go for both and see what happens, but if it doesn't work with one and the other does, I don't want to think of her as my back up option. Both are beautiful, but I am more in love with girl b, however, besides all of the aforementioned, it would mean I would have to forsake girl a, because I don't want her to be my second place. Were I to go for girl a, I would probably be happy but I don't know if I could forget girl b. What should I do?