Syd is Bored!
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Complex love situation here? Not sure how to or if I should ask a guy to the dance w/o hurting a friend?
Ok so my friend (lets call he Jane) and I both like the same guy(we'll call him.. Bob). Jane like the boy first and she asked him out a month and a half ago and he rejected her. Then this week our other friend(We'll call her Carly) asked him out and they went out for like 2 days and Carly dumped him. Jane text ed me while they were dating saying: "When Carly and Bob break up lets agree not to ask him out so we don't hurt the other one. OK?" I never replied to the text. Then on Friday after they broke up Jane told Bob she liked him for some reason. Bob told Jane that they are not compatible. I really want to ask Bob to the girl's choice dance but I don't wanna make Jane mad. Would you be mad if you were her? If you think I should ask him how should I ask him? I like him too and I kinda think he would say yes.
Oh BTW Carly is not the jealous type at all so she really wouldn't care.
Ok so my friend (lets call he Jane) and I both like the same guy(we'll call him.. Bob). Jane like the boy first and she asked him out a month and a half ago and he rejected her. Then this week our other friend(We'll call her Carly) asked him out and they went out for like 2 days and Carly dumped him. Jane text ed me while they were dating saying: "When Carly and Bob break up lets agree not to ask him out so we don't hurt the other one. OK?" I never replied to the text. Then on Friday after they broke up Jane told Bob she liked him for some reason. Bob told Jane that they are not compatible. I really want to ask Bob to the girl's choice dance but I don't wanna make Jane mad. Would you be mad if you were her? If you think I should ask him how should I ask him? I like him too and I kinda think he would say yes.
Oh BTW Carly is not the jealous type at all so she really wouldn't care.