I accidentally told my boyfriend's friends that he has IBS/wears diapers. He won't talk

anonymous

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to me.? My boyfriend of 5 years has severe IBS. He gets horrible stomach pains and is sick a lot of the time. He wears protection because of his frequent accidents.
Last night we were at a party with a few guys from a college fraternity that hes trying to join just chilling when he started feeling sick. He went to the bathroom.
2 hours later he was still in the bathroom and I sat down at a table with his friends. They were wondering where he was so I texted him and asked if he was o.k. He texted me back and said
No I had an accident then asked me to bring him his bag which he left in the car. He has a bag with extra clothes and another bag with extra "supplies" (diapers) that he keeps in the car so I asked which one he needed and he said (in a text) the one with diapers.
I told his friends I'd be back and left my cell phone and coat on the table with them as I left to go get his bag from the car. While I was gone I guess his friends (who were drunk) started playing with my phone and reading my texts.
When my boyfriend and I came back to the table his friends started asking questions and making a big deal. Long story short they found out that he had an accident and was wearing a "diaper". They started making fun of him.
The car ride home was hell. He went ballistic on me and was really pissed off. I tried to explain what happened but he won't listen to me. He told me "its over" and won't pick up his cell. What should I do?
 
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