Husband won't have sex!!!?

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I'm so devastated and really starting to hate myself. My self esteem is so low and the reason for this is that my husband won't have sex with me. I have never been in a relationship like this before and I don't know what to do. He blows me off when i ask him its not a priority. And before anyone starts asking about my weight or if i changed, no i haven't. We have only been married for a year and a half. I'm almost 10 years younger ( hes in his mid 30s) than him and not to sound conceited but i'm very pretty and thin. he did have a possible porn addiction like jacking off instead of having sex with me. but hasn't been doing that so much lately and just doesn't seem interested at all. I'm really starting to believe that he's not attracted to me. I'm not a nag ( i swear) and we have a great relationship. Please please let me know if anyone has a similar situation. I would never want to cheat on him but i don't know how i can live the rest of my live like this. Any advice welcome. Thanks for your time.
 
He needs to get help, and if he refuses, he needs to know this will eventually end your marriage. I don't recommend an affair, but I sympathize with your frustration an awful lot. You need a guy who wants you, who will pay attention to you, figure out what you want and need and will take great pleasure in giving that to you. If your husband has totally given up, you are in a tough spot and have the right to end the relationship and seek affection from someone new.
 
wow, ou really need to have a good talk woth your husband bout how you feel about this change. i say he might be the one with a problem, like a sexual dysfunction. he might just be avoiding the issue, or not wanting to face this problem, embarrassed perhaps. whatever it is, you need to bring up the issue. let him know about your concerns.
 
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