Husband runs off to family when we fight?

[Ggal]

I have literally no privacy in my life any more. I have been with my husband 3 yrs, 2 yrs dating 1 year newlyweds, and 6 months before the wedding i found out he would call his folks every time we fought, which explains why our arguments we're never settled, he would call them first. It infuriates me that he does this because he's not a kid, he's 30 and i'm younger and do not do this. My parents know very little about our arguments if any, Why? Because its not their business and if i need dire advice i would ask but i cant run to them for every problem. We had a huge argument the other day because i couldnt deal with his judgemental attitude snapped and yelled at him. Finally told him everything thats been bothering me about him, and what does he do? he runs home to his parents and i havent heard from him since. I have no idea when he's coming back, its been 2 days already going on 3 hasnt called or done anything other than speed off saying he's leaving me. I thought he would be back that night, or the night before, i dont know what to think anymore or do. A part of me doesnt want to give in and call him cause he's all about control and power but i dont know what to do. If i should just pack my things and head to my folks and give him a taste of his own medicine. I'm just so confused, and I have absolutely no one to talk to about this. Please help me.