We have been married for just shy of 9 years and have a 6 year old daughter. This all started over something stupid I had done almost 2 years ago while husband was out of town. That Is one night was out with some friends and ended up going home with some guy. It was a stupid thing and felt so bad that finally confessed to hubby what had done. We both wanted to save our marriage so started counseling. The counseling seems to have worked except in regard to sex. Have actually went to 2 different counselors now hoping that maybe can fix this issue. He says that just still not past that part of the issue and if can not wait then I will be the one that has to file for divorce since I was the one that screwed things up. I love him so much and he swears that loves me too. But this lack of sexual intimacy is driving me crazy we still hug, kiss, hold hands etc.
