afeickertlove
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I have been married to my husband for a year now and together for almost 5 years. When we first got together we made love every night at least 2 times a night. Then we got our own place and we stopped. All of a sudden he only wants to make love 1 time every 2 weeks to a month. Any time I'm in the mood to ( as he calls it "be naughty") he has some excuse. He's too tired, his tummy hurts, he's too sore from work, its too late or too early, he has a head ache and so on. I've tried everything in my power to try to make him more receptive... from lingerie, cleaning the house, romantic dinners, porn, offering to do ANYTHING he wants, walking around naked (which I get criticized for).... What do I do? Yes I've thought he could be cheating but he doesn't have the time. I know where he's at and he works with his brother, so he could never get away to have an affair. What am I doing wrong? What do I need to do? Its been over a month since he last touched me in an intimate way!
I've tried talking to him but it always ends with me crying and him saying whatever and walking away. As for the cheating unless he's picking up a hooker in his work van with his brother there, driving 1-3 hours out of town and leaving her there while he works.... well I just don't know when he'd have time.
I've tried talking to him but it always ends with me crying and him saying whatever and walking away. As for the cheating unless he's picking up a hooker in his work van with his brother there, driving 1-3 hours out of town and leaving her there while he works.... well I just don't know when he'd have time.