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Ruchira
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My husband has always been a sexual person, we found out we're expecting in July. In Sept we moved, i went first, and he came in Nov....until Nov our sex life was fine, we did it 2-3 times weekly. Since he came up after me in Nov he's totally not been interested in sex at all. He says it's stress, the fact he might hurt me or baby. I told him sex is fine during pregnancy, so did the DR. but everytime he has excuses not to do it, and when we do, it's normally pitty sex, if i argue why we don't do it anymore. And it only lasts 5-10 mins, it's like a get in/out kinda deal. And it's only bangging, nothing on my end, i enjoy oral alot, and he hates doing it. Lately i been trying to play out his fantasizes or do things he likes in bed, to get him to come back for more. And he says the sex is great, but doesn't come back for more. The few times he does watch porn i realized it's more hardcore kind ( group sex 1 white chick, 6 blk guys kinda thing, or a girl blowin fire outta her jj) weird stuff like that. When i try to get him to look at more normal porn he says it's boring. And he talks alot about having sex with another women, or a 3-some. (we lost our virginity's together, and he's only been with me) He says he's attracted to me, and finds me sexy, and he'd never cheat but he's just not in the mood and that's it and after the pregnancy things will go back to normal, but c'mon with a baby who needs lots of attention, and me tired out. i don't think so. And since i been preg, my sex drive has been off the roof. I hear most couples enjoy this period. And mine has been awful. I end up laying in bed thinking about ex's and the great sex we had, since my hubby can't seem to please me. Any advice or tips that could help??