My Husband is coming home in October our daughter will be 17 months old and we are expecting our second child early september, When he left our daughter was barley walking she was ten months old and she was still sweet now she is a full on toddler that will drive you crazy, Also i was not very far into my pregnancy and not really showing, This is our third deployment together but never One with kids involved. How can i make it easier on him coming home to a kid that can drive you crazy in her toddler years and a new baby crying I am not sure it has hit him that its going to be here when he gets home since he missed the pregnancy and will miss the birth. Any suggestions on how to help him adjust?