Vince Jackson
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We have a 2 yr old kid, 16 yrs of marriage. Husb wanted a baby too, he refused any intimate relations with me after conceiving (breasfed 1 yr). He helped me in the house, shopping, is polite, had a job, but we had no physical contact at all. He kind of loves the kid but in a very old-style way; cold, doesnot read books to her or take her to the park. He asked me not to force or ask for bed time with him. He would help with the kid when ASKED,he said he was 10% an active father. I am full-time working mum, and toddler in childcare 5 h /day when not sick, and I spent mostly of time alone with kid, bcz husb not showing any interest. Now, he had interest in a co-worker, no Xmas presents for us, emotionally is detached from us, he told me about having prostitutes and wanting to leave me before having baby , to find his freedom, does not want me, will send me money for kid. Affair is over, he is depressed, no job, he does not want to talk, to leave, to save marriage. What can I do?