We have been together for 4 years and the sex life has steadily gone down the tubes. He says he's too tired, or stressed all the time. Recently after much prodding we have begun having sex somewhat more often, but he won't or cant finish. Last night he said he was close, but it had been a long time since he has cum??
I never catch him masturbating or with porn.
I would be suprised if he was cheating, very suprised.
He seems anxious a lot, could this be like depression or anxiety.
Also, I have only gotten fitter since we've dated, so I haven't put on weight or started looking slobby.
Finally, we never really argue, but we are not perfect. I think we get along better than most couples, you know no history of infadelity, no mean harsh words, we are nice and cuddly and kissy etc but without ever moving to sex.
I never catch him masturbating or with porn.
I would be suprised if he was cheating, very suprised.
He seems anxious a lot, could this be like depression or anxiety.
Also, I have only gotten fitter since we've dated, so I haven't put on weight or started looking slobby.
Finally, we never really argue, but we are not perfect. I think we get along better than most couples, you know no history of infadelity, no mean harsh words, we are nice and cuddly and kissy etc but without ever moving to sex.