How would you feel about dating a girl with an eating disorder (bulimia or anorexia)?

I had anorexia nervosa while dating someone, and we broke up mutually when school started (different schools) and a month later I went into the hospital. Years later, he has told me how shocked he was that I would always be exercising, always be doing something, and never eating. He expressed great concern for me, but could never do anything about it.

I wouldn't blame a guy for breaking up with a girl because she had an eating disorder. It drags the relationship down, and, sadly, there really isn't anything he can do to help - she must want the help on her own.
 
im a gurl but if i was a boy i would dump her or juz not say yes because she probably looks nersty
 
No I wouldn't dump any friend but instead try to help her. She has a mental hang up about being too fat and doing serious damage to herself. What she really needs is counseling to help her see what this is all about and the harm it is doing to herself. She needs to eat nutritional food to be healthy and live a long life. Talk to her about it and coax her to get professional help and counseling. If she refuses then I'd find a new girl friend. She is only hurting her self to continue in this lifestyle. Good Luck to and hope things work out good.
 
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