Thomas Hayes
New member
Hey Guys and Gals. Okay, so here's the story...
Im usually what a lot of people would consider a 'playa' ...up until a couple of weeks ago. i met this girl, that i really like. She very respectable, gorgeous, laughs at my stupid jokes, and is not a gold digger...
So we went out, i took her for pre-drinks, then for dinner, then went dancing and back home...She didn't give it up the first night which i really liked.... i like a chase also
so the next night she comes over and we drink wine and hang out and have laughs and she leaves at 11pm... im left thinking that i've found a great girl at this stage...
So we hang out a lot... and i find out a band is coming into town, the script...a band i know - so i get us on the guest list and we go to that... great times, we go out partying and all that stuff... we get home and both wasted we end up getting it on... it was great, but after a few minutes she wanted to stop...said she wasn't ready and was just wasted... so that was that
since then we've hung out... i explained to her we can wait until shes comfortable with me before we go down that road again...and she really liked it when i said that...
I had her over for a basketball game the other night and we had some beers and good times and just laid on the couch together. felt great...
But now she has said that its moving too fast, i guess shes right.... and she said that she just doesn't wanna get hurt .... so i just told her i felt the same and agreed ...it is moving fast but i was having so much fun i wasn't really paying attention...
We talked on the phone tonight and i had her pissing herself laughing...but i didn't stay on the phone forever, i thought it would be better to cut it short... so i said goodbye and told her i'd text her over the next few days.... good move? pointers? am i being a bitch? Don't pull any punches guys. i'm usually the tough skinned alpha male but this chick is definitely worth the effort.
Im usually what a lot of people would consider a 'playa' ...up until a couple of weeks ago. i met this girl, that i really like. She very respectable, gorgeous, laughs at my stupid jokes, and is not a gold digger...
So we went out, i took her for pre-drinks, then for dinner, then went dancing and back home...She didn't give it up the first night which i really liked.... i like a chase also
so the next night she comes over and we drink wine and hang out and have laughs and she leaves at 11pm... im left thinking that i've found a great girl at this stage...
So we hang out a lot... and i find out a band is coming into town, the script...a band i know - so i get us on the guest list and we go to that... great times, we go out partying and all that stuff... we get home and both wasted we end up getting it on... it was great, but after a few minutes she wanted to stop...said she wasn't ready and was just wasted... so that was that
since then we've hung out... i explained to her we can wait until shes comfortable with me before we go down that road again...and she really liked it when i said that...
I had her over for a basketball game the other night and we had some beers and good times and just laid on the couch together. felt great...
But now she has said that its moving too fast, i guess shes right.... and she said that she just doesn't wanna get hurt .... so i just told her i felt the same and agreed ...it is moving fast but i was having so much fun i wasn't really paying attention...
We talked on the phone tonight and i had her pissing herself laughing...but i didn't stay on the phone forever, i thought it would be better to cut it short... so i said goodbye and told her i'd text her over the next few days.... good move? pointers? am i being a bitch? Don't pull any punches guys. i'm usually the tough skinned alpha male but this chick is definitely worth the effort.