Heart break
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Me and my ex dated for 6 yrs we were deeply in love.
then there was this friend of mine who was my gf for sometime before my ex ..she had life crisis ( father had brain cancer) and i had to pay more attention to her ..i ended up in personal issues myself. this friend trying hard to get into relationship with me.
all this complicated my ex felt abandoned ..though i try to explain ..she encountered other men who she sought comfort but the ended up jus playing her mind and use for sex.
my ex is overwelmed by gult on what happened and anger at me . but i sat down with her and we started to sort things out. when everything going fine.
this friend of mine interfered and my ex said she dosent want to be with me. ..and she met some guy at church.
this guy coudnt deside if he want to commit to her or not and dragging issue ..he is broke and living with other younger guys . and he is 34. she says she likes him but he is so complicated .
we still are friends very close talk every single day on and off she come up with if we get married topic ..and how important i am to her etc.
this church guy suddenly shows up on her bday again brings buncha flowers and etc etc ..she is overwelmed.
I asked her if she wants to deside between him and me.
she said i want to marry you and i dont ..i am afraid our history makes it impossble for us to be happy ..but i dont want to loose you as friend.
this guy i know is nice but he is so complicated makes me scared ..
i just dont know ..we will talk when we meet face to face.
but i dont want you to think i am talking to you coz i want to keep hope of you and me ..i do coz i like you and i need u your my friend.
I WANT MY GIRL BACK ..AND WANNA GET MARRIED ..AS WE ALWAYS WISHED ..ALL ISSUES HAVE BEEN SORTED NOMORE FIREND GIRL ..SHE GOTRID OF THOSE GUYS. she is scared of hurt we bought n each other .
then there was this friend of mine who was my gf for sometime before my ex ..she had life crisis ( father had brain cancer) and i had to pay more attention to her ..i ended up in personal issues myself. this friend trying hard to get into relationship with me.
all this complicated my ex felt abandoned ..though i try to explain ..she encountered other men who she sought comfort but the ended up jus playing her mind and use for sex.
my ex is overwelmed by gult on what happened and anger at me . but i sat down with her and we started to sort things out. when everything going fine.
this friend of mine interfered and my ex said she dosent want to be with me. ..and she met some guy at church.
this guy coudnt deside if he want to commit to her or not and dragging issue ..he is broke and living with other younger guys . and he is 34. she says she likes him but he is so complicated .
we still are friends very close talk every single day on and off she come up with if we get married topic ..and how important i am to her etc.
this church guy suddenly shows up on her bday again brings buncha flowers and etc etc ..she is overwelmed.
I asked her if she wants to deside between him and me.
she said i want to marry you and i dont ..i am afraid our history makes it impossble for us to be happy ..but i dont want to loose you as friend.
this guy i know is nice but he is so complicated makes me scared ..
i just dont know ..we will talk when we meet face to face.
but i dont want you to think i am talking to you coz i want to keep hope of you and me ..i do coz i like you and i need u your my friend.
I WANT MY GIRL BACK ..AND WANNA GET MARRIED ..AS WE ALWAYS WISHED ..ALL ISSUES HAVE BEEN SORTED NOMORE FIREND GIRL ..SHE GOTRID OF THOSE GUYS. she is scared of hurt we bought n each other .