How To Surprise My Wife After A Bad Fight & It Was Her Fault?

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I am wanting to surprise my wife this Friday. I know she works night shift until midnight, so I am going to pop up at her house. We havent spoken to one another in a month. She got mad, said some hurtful things to me, and we haven't broken the silence yet. She always does this, and usually comes back around within a day or two saying shes sorry for saying those things out of anger. I think she tried calling but I turned my phone off and never looked at it for the past month.

She probably thinks I am done with all the stuff she makes me go through, and she herself knows that it is hard to find a good, responsible, trustworthy man in the world today. With that being said, I will take the long distant drive to surprise her for the weekend [we live apart for now due to college.. she stays with her rents, and I stay with mine].

Should I just ring the door bell with some roses in my hand? How should I go about this? I am 99.9% sure she will be very happy to see me travel so far to see her, espec when she knows she did a number on me this time and probably lost me for good. I believe, sometimes, to counter a bad, you must do good to that person, and by action they will see/correct their own mistakes.

Details, comments, anything would be appreciated. Thanks a lot. :)
 
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