how to solve this gay debate?

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k so me...uh im gonna use fake names my friend merat, temari, and lisa were all debating about a topic. which was pretty dumb since knowing them its a never ending situation. so i guess this subject isnt an opinion. ok so we were all talking and then i dont remember who, brought up gayness. so temari is gay and so is lisa...but not together. maret is jehovahs witness....and you could say im gay in denial but i choose not to be gay at this point because im christian. so lisa and temari have the same views on gayness. they both think you are born gay whether you relize it right away or not. they also think you dont choose to be gay you just are. they say people who choose to be gay are posers. cali says you choose to be gay and thats it. she saays your not born gay and you have a choice. i dont think its a choice considering my situation. i also dont think your born gay and i agree with them on posers. being gay is against calis religion. i also think someone could manipulate there own mind into being gay. but lisa and i dont want to be gay and if we had a 'choice' we wouldnt be. also lisa thinks that maret telling them about gayness is like them trying to tell her about jehovah. so there fighting becuase niether of them want to say the other is right and they dont want to apolagize. all of them said they were offended by the other, and apperntly this subject isnt an oppinion. so i wanna know your views on the subject, what you think about gayness and how to solve this.
oh by the way were all girls and we are not fighting religious wise. no on is saying becuase jesus said so and no one is discrimenating on religion
i kissed lisa and liked it does tht meke me bi and were all friends that just happened to be talking about this so its not random
i kissed lisa and liked it does that make me bi and were all friends that just happened to be talking about this so its not random
ok no one is really answering my question i just dont want my friends fighting on this subject and my question is which side are you on
 
i'm a heterosexual female, but i've had a lot of gay and lesbian friends.
it's my understanding that our sexual preferences are based on a process called imprinting. this is a learning mechanism in the brain that causes the body to have specific responses to certain stimuli. when the body has a strong reaction to something it always has the same reaction to that thing especially if that imprint was made before the age of puberty.
it is my opinion that everyone is bisexual to some extent, but our imprinting will always overcome this, unless a stronger imprint is made.
 
This is a never ending debate... I am biased. So.......
I think you guys just need to apologize to each other, and promise to not fight by agreeing to disagree.
 
Nobody uses logic and reason to form a "belief"

Sex is complex and confusing.

Human sexuality was only studied scientifically
in the last hundred years or so years.

Freud, Kinsey, Kraft-Ebbling and others are the major writers on the subject.

What people "should do" is a question of morals, ethics. Religion, law and custom are the way humans pass culture from generation to generation.

What people do and want to do is a question for anthropology and biology.

Can anyone explain when and how they decided to be "straight"?
 
Its not a debate when one person's argument ends each sentence with "Because Jesus said so."
 
what the heck? how do u all happen to know each other? i mean wtf? i mean all in the same debate and all friends and stuff? wtfffff!??!?!

how is it always by chance u got together?

but are you fully lesbian or bi? this is important cuz if u are bi u can still hold half urself out but keep your self together of some sort?

so are u bi?
 
theres ur answer to the debate u dont wanna be gay but u are its obviously not that u have a choice why be something u dont wanna be u kno tell ur friend that u dont choose to be gay just like u cant choose to like someone if u dont like that person u just cant make urself like someone it has to come from inside of u, ur heart.. and u guys just shouldnt talk about this stuff, whats up with having to label people just accept each other for who u are and be happy dont make life harder then it already is
 
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