Well I have been going out with this girl for ten months now and I really love her. I took her virginity last month and since then we have had sex about five times until last week when there was confrontation with my ex girlfriend. I was with my ex for just over a year and we lost our virginity with each other. And basically my current girlfriend was in a shop and so was my ex and her friend (I wasn't there). They recognized my girlfriend from a couple of face book pictures and the pair of them went up to her and said a load of racist rubbish to her, they took the mick out of her breasts (she's a 34A) and they basically put her down in every which way, saying that she's not sexy ad saying that me and my ex will always have a special bond that she will never understand because I lost my virginity with her and saying that we make a ugly couple and my ex and I make a cute couple. After the remarks of her breasts and body my girlfriend had decided we are "never going to have sex again"
when we are out she let's me put my arm around her, I can cuddle and kiss her but when we are in bed she wants to be as far away from me as possible, no kissing not even cuddling up together.
I miss her, I just want to hold her in the night
she won't even come around I've tried talking to her... I'm not sure if I should force her to hold me... I did that once before but that was just after an argument and in bed I pulled her close to me and she tried to push away but I didn't let her go and after she thought I was asleep she stopped being stubborn and she cuddled up to me, wrapping her legs around me and lying on my chest and went to sleep.
I tried reaching over to her last night but she got out of the bed for ten mins so I am not sure about the force hug thing. :/ advice? Talking won't help so I'll need actions or something. I'm always telling her that I love her for her and her body is a bonus to me, I try to make her feel sexy.. Like slapping her butt and stuff. None of it works anymore I have also told my ex where she can stick her jealous opinions.
Advice? Thanks I don't want to lose her she's the best thing that's happened to me I love her to pieces and she knows this
No the sex doesn't matter, like i said, I just want to hold her in the night
She knew beforehand that I wasn't a virgin and she knows that I won't forget her or anything just because she wasn't my first doesn't mean she will be erased from my heart
when we are out she let's me put my arm around her, I can cuddle and kiss her but when we are in bed she wants to be as far away from me as possible, no kissing not even cuddling up together.
I miss her, I just want to hold her in the night
she won't even come around I've tried talking to her... I'm not sure if I should force her to hold me... I did that once before but that was just after an argument and in bed I pulled her close to me and she tried to push away but I didn't let her go and after she thought I was asleep she stopped being stubborn and she cuddled up to me, wrapping her legs around me and lying on my chest and went to sleep. I tried reaching over to her last night but she got out of the bed for ten mins so I am not sure about the force hug thing. :/ advice? Talking won't help so I'll need actions or something. I'm always telling her that I love her for her and her body is a bonus to me, I try to make her feel sexy.. Like slapping her butt and stuff. None of it works anymore I have also told my ex where she can stick her jealous opinions.
Advice? Thanks I don't want to lose her she's the best thing that's happened to me I love her to pieces and she knows this
No the sex doesn't matter, like i said, I just want to hold her in the night
She knew beforehand that I wasn't a virgin and she knows that I won't forget her or anything just because she wasn't my first doesn't mean she will be erased from my heart