Tracey Smith
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related to my other question, my boyfriend lied to me for a year about having a girl from uni's number she's been texting him with kisses, and invited him to her house ( i have now found out is in Leeds ) they both study at Manchester met uni, i texted this girl she said its totally innocent she has a boyfriend and he just really helps her with work and that she puts kisses and smileys on all her texts, and told him I'd texted her. he wasn't happy i had went through his phone but i had a gut feeling of something bad, he told me nothing had happened and he ignored the text which said something along the lines of " i'm not well today could you come round to mine i'm well bad xx " he said he would tell her not to txt him or ring and delete her number,.. he got defensive about even talking about it but about 2 -3 days after new year i checked his phone she had txted again with kisses!!,.. so instead of confronting him i gave him the chance to be honest with me!.. i said " oh im really not happy with my friends no one texted me happy new year!..and he said oh well only my brother an mum did.. HE LIED AGAIN.. i said nothing, a while before i found about her he told me two other girls gave him their numbers from a different lesson but he binned them he was emptying his wallet an they fell out in front of me an i said what's this he reckoned he thought he had binned them,.. this girl is in his tuesday lesson he started bk last tuesday an swore on his life she wasnt in to tell not to txt or ring anymore , but now since i seen the last text he has started switching his phone off at night with me and keeping it by him an switching it on of a day time and never letting it out of his sight???? how the hell can i confront him what should i say , is he always going to lie to me , i love him , he always tells me he loves me and he wants kids with me and move in together when i start uni and that im sexy and loverly, ive been with him two years nearly , i feel so hurt ,.. ( also this might sound a bit nasty but our sex life has always been good we've had dry patchs but very rare due to stress but he hadn't seen me for a week and wouldn't have sex with me this weekend i was on my period but that never used to stop him,??? ) ... also he used to accuse me of having males numbers from work and sleeping with them in the toilets and texting them.. then i found out he had her number and was ringing and texting her ???? why out of everyone in this lesson in uni would he keep her number?... please please please help me :'(
also at the beginning of the relationship i was 17 an cheated on him i was honest an told him it was a mistake an one ive regretted every day of my life an have never done anything to ever hurt him since, I've asked him why he kept this girls number for a year and gave her his new number last month before me!, if he thought ( in his own words she is stupid and hardly ever goes uni and is going to fail ? ) ... please any advice im 18 now i don't know what to do i recently got diagnosed with PCOS , i only just started to think we were getting on great and this happens :'( i love him the world i dont know anymore
i feel so stressed out ( ive seen a picture of this girl as well and i feel fat & ugly he says im not but i feel it
also at the beginning of the relationship i was 17 an cheated on him i was honest an told him it was a mistake an one ive regretted every day of my life an have never done anything to ever hurt him since, I've asked him why he kept this girls number for a year and gave her his new number last month before me!, if he thought ( in his own words she is stupid and hardly ever goes uni and is going to fail ? ) ... please any advice im 18 now i don't know what to do i recently got diagnosed with PCOS , i only just started to think we were getting on great and this happens :'( i love him the world i dont know anymore
i feel so stressed out ( ive seen a picture of this girl as well and i feel fat & ugly he says im not but i feel it