Alison Tee
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I have a LDR (Shut up we're doing just fine!) and next summer we'll get too see each other again at my summer camp. I'm excited but I'm also nervous. I really really REALLY want to kiss him, but I'm not sure how. Plus, theres a few problems.
1) There are no relationships allowed at camp (we kept it pretty low key, just sitting next to each other and hanging out a lot but when we hung out it was far enough away to REALLY get to know each other)
2) It's hard to sneak out at night (counselors have meetings, boys and girls sides are far apart, creaky doors)
3) I HAVE NO IDEA HOW TO KISS.
I'm not talking hot and heavy make out session, just a kiss on the lips. Maybe a little tongue but not much (we're gonna be 14 for crying out loud!) And it's not some Christian Camp where their SUPER uptight about it. (It's a farm camp)
So how do I do that? I'm a bit more of the dominant person in the relationship, and he's also a bit shy. I know he would need a lot of coaxing to kiss me or I'd have to make the first move. How do I do that secretly w/o counselors or cabin mates seeing us? How do I kiss? How do I use a bit of tongue without seeming like I wanna heavily make out? I know I still have plenty of time to figure this out but it's been bugging me and I would like answers now. Serious answers would be the best instead of "Your too young!" Thanks!
1) There are no relationships allowed at camp (we kept it pretty low key, just sitting next to each other and hanging out a lot but when we hung out it was far enough away to REALLY get to know each other)
2) It's hard to sneak out at night (counselors have meetings, boys and girls sides are far apart, creaky doors)
3) I HAVE NO IDEA HOW TO KISS.
I'm not talking hot and heavy make out session, just a kiss on the lips. Maybe a little tongue but not much (we're gonna be 14 for crying out loud!) And it's not some Christian Camp where their SUPER uptight about it. (It's a farm camp)
So how do I do that? I'm a bit more of the dominant person in the relationship, and he's also a bit shy. I know he would need a lot of coaxing to kiss me or I'd have to make the first move. How do I do that secretly w/o counselors or cabin mates seeing us? How do I kiss? How do I use a bit of tongue without seeming like I wanna heavily make out? I know I still have plenty of time to figure this out but it's been bugging me and I would like answers now. Serious answers would be the best instead of "Your too young!" Thanks!