im 6 weeks, the father doesnt know and is just finishing up navy boot camp. he comes back dec 18 and stays till jan 8th i think, how should i tell him? I feel like such a burden to him because he's finally getting his life on track... we are together and love eachother and have known eachother for a solid 3 years of friendship, i just feel like a burden on his part because i want the best for him. how should i tell him? i also havent told anyone else yet, should he be the first person i tell?