Yes, it's a question about sex and I'm not looking for attacks from ninth graders. In fact, answer only if you are a post op mtf or have dated one.
So, my girlfriend is a mtf and she has some scars down there. I wasn't allowed to look at them yet, but it feels like some bigger bum or something. So, whenever we have sex where we touch there (her scars come to rub against me), I get hurt. But also it's like the hottest thing that girls can do together, so I don't know if I want to never ever do this... Are scars in post op common? Can they be removed? How can we go about that?
So, my girlfriend is a mtf and she has some scars down there. I wasn't allowed to look at them yet, but it feels like some bigger bum or something. So, whenever we have sex where we touch there (her scars come to rub against me), I get hurt. But also it's like the hottest thing that girls can do together, so I don't know if I want to never ever do this... Are scars in post op common? Can they be removed? How can we go about that?