VincentTheRouge
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Maybe I spend too much time in the LGBT section. I am a straight guy who, for almost 6 years now has had nothing but bisexual girlfriends. The thing is when it comes to sex, I'm told I'm good and I have give girls multiple orgasms but that's only because I became obsessed, literally OBSESSED with pleasing women during sex. it started when I was about 16 and came here. I started seeing questions on here about "Who's better in bed, men or women?" and it would always be women women women(except for the gay guys, but I'm not after them) so anyway upon seeing this I had to ask myself why. I asked this question a number of times myself and bought a bunch of books and read articles on pleasing women, lesbian sex secrets for men, what you think you're doing right...you get the idea. I also began intensely studying female anatomy, erogenous zones, if I wanted to I could name every single part of the female genitals from the clitoral hood to the perineum and the anus. I know I took it too far when I was teaching girls new ways to masturbate but anyway.
Don't get me wrong. I'm usually a very confident guy, hard worker, great listener, I try to be the best man I can be and I'm pretty easy ont he eyes not to brag. but after watching a disturbing amount of girl-on-girl porn and of course seeing answers on here about how girls are better than guys I always have this distinct fear that either on a drunken night or out of misplaced judgment my gf will see another woman(remember, bisexual) somehow end up in a room together, they'll get naked. if she ever gets nervous you got that oh so classic "nothing to be embarrassed about,we're both girls" line. one thing will lead to another and her home field advantage will make sex with her more enjoyable than with me and she'll dump me for that other girl. Aside from that one irrational stupid fear of mine I try to be very kind and caring, gentle yet assertive. Maybe the problem lies in me being what others want me to be because I don't want to be left for someone better.
No sex isn't all I think about in relationships. But it's the one thing I get insecure about. So my question is, how should I get over this? (Sorry for it being so long but it really really gets to me. Please help ):
Don't get me wrong. I'm usually a very confident guy, hard worker, great listener, I try to be the best man I can be and I'm pretty easy ont he eyes not to brag. but after watching a disturbing amount of girl-on-girl porn and of course seeing answers on here about how girls are better than guys I always have this distinct fear that either on a drunken night or out of misplaced judgment my gf will see another woman(remember, bisexual) somehow end up in a room together, they'll get naked. if she ever gets nervous you got that oh so classic "nothing to be embarrassed about,we're both girls" line. one thing will lead to another and her home field advantage will make sex with her more enjoyable than with me and she'll dump me for that other girl. Aside from that one irrational stupid fear of mine I try to be very kind and caring, gentle yet assertive. Maybe the problem lies in me being what others want me to be because I don't want to be left for someone better.
No sex isn't all I think about in relationships. But it's the one thing I get insecure about. So my question is, how should I get over this? (Sorry for it being so long but it really really gets to me. Please help ):