How to get over a break up when the guy saids he doesn't want a gf. suddenly...

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He played you. It sucks to hear, but he did. I know PLENTY of people who have started dating younger than you and are still together. He wanted to have sex, and he saw you would after a while.

I'm sorry you're hurting, but now you need to just breathe and move on. It'll suck, it'll hurt but you can do it. Don't give up, there are good guys out there.

Also, please give this some thought. Most guys don't attached sex to emotional feelings. These feelings are simply to have sex with someone because sex is fun. I don't blame them because it's in a guys DNA to be an asshole when it comes to that. Male animals around the world are supposed to have sex with every female that comes in contact them during the mating season to make sure their DNA lives on. We are no different.

Not all guys are like that. I know, because I'm not and I have met plenty of guys who are like me. They don't mind sex, but it isn't their driving force.

Again, I'm sorry you got heart broken, but be careful to distinguish sex from love. And keep on going, there are other guys out there who aren't total dick heads.
 
...right after sex? we dated for almost 2 months. we lost our virginity to each other. and a week after sex he saids he just doesn't want a girlfriend anymore. i feel so hurt, he knows that. were still talking and he still cares about me, but it hurts so bad. i feel i wasn't good enough for him. and I'm mad at him for not being certain about what he wanted from this relationship. how do i deal with this?
hes 16 I'm 15, 16 at the end of the month. he lives 30mins away so i don't have to worry about seeing him, but he still wants to be friends. he means so much to me still.
we broke up last night...we had sex 4 time. 3 of them one night....i thought there was something special between us. i gave him my heart and all i had to give.
he said he wont be dating for a long time,(months) and he said i was the perfect girl for him. but hes a teen boy who cant be committed for a steady relationship.
he doesn't want to get back together. were staying friends because we connect so well...but i still like him...and im still upset about everything

he was my first love
he was a virgin...trust me. the boy doesn't get girls running after him....im one of those weird guys who date guys on personality.not looks.
and i shouldve added he got drunk and high one night after we had sex and he told his guy friend he would have sex with their one friend who is a girl even though he was dating me...i was just informed about this. i flipped out and he said he didnt remember and i he would never cheat sober. but he said hes really not into dating or being involved with girls right now.
okay...the boy is not a bad boy.
he a nerdy musician. which is my kind of guy. one who can have a convo about anything with me and play the guitar and sing.

thank for the answers im getting. keep them coming.=]
i meant to say im one of those weird girls....not guys...lol. im a straight female.
 
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