I'm 14 i have never had a girlfriend before and i have a very few guy and girl friends but a lot of aquantences and i just can't seem to build up confidence to talk to girls that i find attractive. I'm not shy with girls i do not find attractive, so i try to talk to popular girls with confidence like there my friends and sometimes it works out well but the next day or week they don't say much to me anymore. Is it because they lost interest in me?? I have a big fear of getting rejected or getting a negative reaction when i first meet something it ruins my confidence and it happens a lot to me. I try to keep things classy by talking about what we have in common like classes or teachers because there's nothing else i can talk about to them.