how to discuss with my mum?

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i'm 15 coming on sixteen
my boyfriend is 17 going on 18

we have been together for a year and 6/7 months, we had sex 5 months after we first started going out properly. before that we just kissed and nothing else.

now i do NOT want people calling me a slut, although i lost my virginity at 14 (to the boy i'm still with and plan to be with for a damn long time), because i'm sorry but alot of people just shag the first couple of weeks. i'm pretty proud of myself and respect me and my boyfriend for waiting until we were ready. we were both virgins and knew it was right.

i don't know if my mum knows that we've had sex, his mum knows we have because she's given him condoms and also leaves us alone and goes out shopping and stuff. my mum put me on the pill, but it was for other reasons than birth control.
i think she may have guessed seeig as me and my boyfriend are pretty involved now (we've fallen pretty quickly i think) but on the other hand, she tooksome condoms off me that she found in my bag once, after a major bollocking for having them.

i don't know whether to sit down and tell her that i've had sex with him or to wait untill the next time she brings it up
or just wait until april and say i've only done it once.
i don't know if she'll believe that.

i'm so confused, i don't know what to do!?
it's been on my mind for a couple of months now.
 
DO NOT TELL HER!!!!
only say the truth when she asks u.
ive been through this.....do not tell her!
I REPEAT!DO NOT TELL HER!
 
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