How to discuss sex with partner?

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Smokey

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okay me and my gf are both "virgins" and both not really forward when it comes to our relationship both of us are really confident people but between us where are not but its still a comfortablle enviroment togehter! i have never had any relationship like the one with her i've never felt so close to anyone1 and i am wondering how to o about discussing sex without harming the relationship
 
You shouldnt force sex but you should definitely talk to her about it. if shes uncomfortable then don't force it. You should definitely wait until you both are ready
 
just talk to her - openly and honestly - ask her what her expections are of the relationship , and what she wants next to happen in it best of luck to both. cheers!
 
You said that you are really close to this girl, but at the same time, you can't approach the subject of sex with her. I honestly don't think that you are ready to take that step then. Once a couple has sex, it can make or break a relationship. I would focus more on continuing to get to know each other. Then when you can both comfortably talk about sex without getting advice from other people, then maybe you would be ready. I'm also guessing that you are both young. So I suggest you waiting it out.
 
Take it slowly and talk to eachother,explore eachoter and most of all respect eachoter..oh, and don,t get totally drunk, maybe a couple of glasses of wine but don,t drink because your nervous. It,s a great experience to make love to somebody who is special to you..Have fun!!
 
hint it around or ask her directly and say you understand if she says no (its not like in "adult" movies where you just show her your ding dong and it happens so dont try that)
 
just ask her if she would want sex and reassure her that you don't mind if she says no and that you can wait. Should keep the relationship the way it is
 
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