If your husband has intermittent erectile dysfunction, how is the best way to react when you are all ready, after lots of hot and heavy foreplay, and it's not going to work? How can you react in a way that doesn't make him feel bad? And, how do you ease your own disappointment, and feelings of rejection. Yes, it still feels like rejection even when you know it's not you. How do you keep positive, and keep trying when you know it might end in disappointment? How do make sure that one event doesn't have such a traumatic affect on the guy that the psychological affects make it worse and affect the next times?