How to Deal with most RUDEST in laws ever.?

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I have been with my husband for 6 yrs and married for 3yrs.My in laws are by far the rudest people I have ever met or anyone else has met and my husband was raised this way so he see's no problem in the way they act and this the only arguments we get into.Some examples I had a b day party for our little girl and his father did not say not one word to any of my guest,my friend that nows my husbands family very well and also knows his parents went up to his dad said hello and he stood up and walked away this is the normal he does it to everyone and the funny thing is,is that one time I was at there house for my daughters 1st b day I answerd my phone to give dections to a friend and his father and mother came up to me right when was on the phone and his father called me a "rude little girl" because I didnt put down the phone.My daughter screams when we pull up at there house and she does not do this with anyones other then there home.First of all let me discribe his parents his dad is a want2be mocho man he hunts animals and cheats on his wife and she has no back bone and tries to act like a bitch and cold to everyone because she knows she pathitic,I know I should not call them names but Im at my witt ends.Another example at x-mas which is soooooo boring at there house well i was sitting by the tree opening gifts with my 1 year old and his mother pushed me and told me more like screamed at me "Get up get up",because she did not want me in the picture my husband said I should of gotten up faster,I some times want to leave him just because of his parents but there only problems we have.I have talked to my mother in law and told her that I am not going to stand for there un kindnest towards me it worked for a couple of weeks but they are both back being complete ass'es.All my friends and family dont even want to be around them and my husband always stands up fro them and says "thats just way thet are" I understand that but it does not make it right for them to be such jerks please help before I leave my husband or my daughter picks up on there rude manners.
 
Well, since your husband backs them up, there's really nothing you can do...It would be different if he agreed with you, what a difficult situation! wow! Yes, sound like his parents are VERY rude, why did you marry him in the first place?? Was his parents nice to you then?? Because maybe you could try and find that felling that you had then,,,NOW, This will sound very cliche, however, the first thing that popped into my head was Dr. Phil...anyway
I would be a bitch right back, if it were me personally...I know that doesn't sound right, but if my father in law called me a rude little girl, because I was giving directions to someone...I would've said shut up...and walked away....or if you see someone approach him at a gathering, and notice he doesn't respond, you say " oh, He doesn't talk to anyone" make him feel what an ass he's being.....good luck...sorry you have to go through all that!
 
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