OK, Where do I begin. I've known my Bf for over 13 years. He had hooked up with this girl for a one night stand before we got back in touch, and she got pregnant. She had told my boyfriend that if anything happened and she got pregnant that she wouldn't have it because she isn't ready to have kids,and he FULLY AGREED.
Well... I came into the picture and a little over 2 months go by and she texts him and says " I"m having your baby" Basically she had told me ( because she is such an idiot) that she felt a void and wanted a baby so she used him to get one...SO WHAT THE HECK!
She had the baby and now she is using it against him. The baby is now 7 months old... and we have gone through so much with her bull shit and texting him 24 hours a day and wanting this and that and telling him what a piece of shit he is because he isn't around every second of the day. If he was around every second of the day they would be dating or married. One minute she will say she will bring him over Sunday night and when she texts him for the 70th time that day and he checks his cell phone when he gets off of work she says something like " YOU WILL NEVER SEE YOUR SON AGAIN!! YOU ARE A PIECE OF SHIT WHO IS A DEADBEAT DAD AND YOU DON'T DESERVE TO SEE YOUR CHILD. YOU CAN'T COMMUNICATE WITH ME" and the list goes on and on. She takes care of someone else's kids for money and thats about it for working so her cell phone is attached to her hands all day. My boyfriend is a great father, buys him food even though he pays child support the whole 9. But dealing with her mouth and harrasement is making it almost not worth it..Let me remind you.. THIS IS EVERYDAY!!!!! Every second of every day this is going on. We have a custody case going right now but it's been over 3 months and no word.. What can I do? Can anyone tell me something that can make me feel better about this situation or others going through the same thing? A support group maybe?
Well... I came into the picture and a little over 2 months go by and she texts him and says " I"m having your baby" Basically she had told me ( because she is such an idiot) that she felt a void and wanted a baby so she used him to get one...SO WHAT THE HECK!
She had the baby and now she is using it against him. The baby is now 7 months old... and we have gone through so much with her bull shit and texting him 24 hours a day and wanting this and that and telling him what a piece of shit he is because he isn't around every second of the day. If he was around every second of the day they would be dating or married. One minute she will say she will bring him over Sunday night and when she texts him for the 70th time that day and he checks his cell phone when he gets off of work she says something like " YOU WILL NEVER SEE YOUR SON AGAIN!! YOU ARE A PIECE OF SHIT WHO IS A DEADBEAT DAD AND YOU DON'T DESERVE TO SEE YOUR CHILD. YOU CAN'T COMMUNICATE WITH ME" and the list goes on and on. She takes care of someone else's kids for money and thats about it for working so her cell phone is attached to her hands all day. My boyfriend is a great father, buys him food even though he pays child support the whole 9. But dealing with her mouth and harrasement is making it almost not worth it..Let me remind you.. THIS IS EVERYDAY!!!!! Every second of every day this is going on. We have a custody case going right now but it's been over 3 months and no word.. What can I do? Can anyone tell me something that can make me feel better about this situation or others going through the same thing? A support group maybe?