i want my hair to look the same way and yesterday it actually did! lol .. i recommend when it is really wet after taking a shower put it in a really messy bun on top of your head and let it dry and then when close to try (about 2 hrs) pull it out and yay! haha if you dont have this much time then follow the same procedure and blowdry the bun .. or if you can french braid or regular braid .. put two in ! hope this helps!