My husband and I are not Christians and she is. She's trying to force us to let her take our son to church with her and we want to wait until he's old enough to hold his own opinions before letting him go with her. How do I tell her this without causing a major blow-out? I've tried being blunt, I've tried being subtle, and she just won't listen. She thinks she's doing what's best for him, but we don't want him going through what we had to when we were little. Please only sincere answers, and no one bashing us for not being Christian, thanks!